Selecting a secondary school can be a worrying time for parents. There are many factors to consider: whether you want your child to go to a grammar or a comprehensive school; whether a mixed or a single sex school is more appropriate. Different schools work best for different people so make sure that you and your child go to the open evenings and learn as much as you can about what each school has to offer.

 

A grammar school offers numerous benefits but may present some harsh drawbacks. Whilst you may be getting an accelerated or ‘better’ education than that of a comprehensive school, a lot of children will be travelling long distance journeys (often up to or even more than an hour) to and from school every day. This means that they will be up at very early times and in the winter months, will be back home after dark. Is that really what you want for your child?  With many grammar schools renowned for a large amount of homework, your teens may find themselves with less time out of the house with friends, creating an environment where socialising becomes an increasingly difficult task. 

 

With a local comprehensive, many of their primary school friends will likely go to the same school keeping your child happy knowing they know somebody on their first day.  It may be concerning that your child will be exposed to a small percentage of poor influences at their new school, however, if they avoid these distractions, there is still a high chance that they will achieve grades comparable of those expected at a grammar school.

 

Another factor in deciding a school is the gender of pupils. A mixed school provides benefits such as being able to work with both genders, a valuable skill that all employers are looking for.  The downside of mixed schools is the difficulties that may occur if students have engaged in relationships that have broken down.

 

Because of this single sex schools can often be deemed as better for your child. Some children may find this a more relaxed environment where they do not feel the need to impress others and can simply be themselves. It does, however, mean they are spending an overwhelming amount of time with one gender and this may make working with or having a relationship with someone of the other gender much more difficult in their future.

 

Ultimately the decision is yours but with so many factors to consider, it can be a difficult one. Take your time so that you and your child can be satisfied with your choices. This is about your child’s future so make sure you pick the option that is right for everyone.